Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Mama Is Away for 2 Days

Which one is you? A stay home mother or a working mother?

It is really a dilemma if you think about your kids at home with other care givers. Like today, i had to fly to Kuching, Sarawak for a quality audit and only will be back tomorrow mid night.

I really miss my KIDS

My son keeps calling "Mama" every time he sees my car parked in the car porch. He still could not understand why the car is there but mama is not.

I wish i could stay home with them but when i think realistically i do not regret that i am also bringing home the bread for my family. Money is not everything but it is a necessity.

Kids now days needs
1. Good education
2. Variety of good food
3. Entertainment
4. Better quality of clothes and shoes
5. Future financial savings
6. Good health
7. etc....

all these needs cash.

How about yourself? you need to pamper yourself once in a while with new clothes, jewelries, new hills and etc. Except for those with super wealthy husband, most of us could not afford to get that much allowance from our hardworking husband.

Therefore, the reality is most of us mothers need to work to help out our family financial. You agree with me? but please do not neglect your children emotional needs.


  1. Definitely not an easy decision to make, there are pro and con to both.


  2. Yes, it all depends on your priority.....